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Is God? Please

God is heterosexual
know ?.... how ?..... when my daughter told me she was a lesbian, one of the many thoughts of mine was, my God !!... and now? ... what do we do?

In all the years I had, and I suffered, my "Christian education", we never talked about the "Sex and God," "sexual options and God," "homosexual love God, love (only love ) yes, a lot, but with many prejudices and feelings of guilt in abundance.

Despite my agnosticism, I had recorded that Christian thought which says: GOD IS LOVE, and if God is love and love can be heterosexual or homosexual, so why judge?, why deny it, why condemn it?.

If we are Christians, despite the suffering and prejudice of this religion, I mean, if we are Christians and Christians, because, then, homosexuality should not be for us no problem!

real problems and real sins are, for me, for example, drug addiction, alcoholism, bulimia, anorexia, crime, white slavery, pedophilia, lying, biting, gossip and damaging criticism, the tyranny, slavery, drug trafficking, arms trafficking, child prostitution, rape, and is followed by a long list of evils that we are capable of some or many humans.

And in this long list was not my daughter, happily, in any case!, When she told us she was a lesbian.

And yet, I reacted as if my beloved daughter was a "sin errant" ... Of course, I've often wondered why this the way to react to an event as natural and normal?
Well, I've concluded that it was precisely because of all my years of being the Christian religion!

Christianity teaches us and "gives" a heavy very very heavy, burden of sadness, guilt, condemnations of all that the church considers "bad" and escaping to their ideological and economic domains, of course.

I am agnostic, and almost always an atheist, but however much respect for Christian mothers, whose children are gay or heterosexual, and I would remind you that saying that God is Love ... and if you have really in their hearts, and if they believe in him, for their gay children also believe in a God, "because you have been taught to believe, and that God turn for help to find the strength to face the truth, that same God turn to give them strength and courage to tell you they are gay!

And God, through you, must give an answer consistent with his wisdom, and God must open our arms of love, understanding, patience, not prejudice, tolerance, is not it?

Happy are those who have a God to turn to, because apart from God is absolute love, God also understand, forgive, not judge and if it really exists, cares for his daughters and sons are gay, straight, bisexual or fall in love with true love, of an extraterrestrial being, if possible!

Happy are those who believe, because, in truth, live less alone!

From my agnosticism or atheism I am responsible for myself and my conscience. In this talk another day.

Dbz Chi Chi Doushinji

parents, not Look through the hole!

There is a misconception that parents, especially Mom "should know everything" that happens to their children.
Perhaps this is true when children are young and we always ask, things such as: How have you been in school, you gave it your exams, you've washed your hands, you changed your underwear, you had a problem, you fell, you did all your homework, and you brush your teeth, etc.etc, etc ....?

But when children grow and when your bedroom is your front lines and belong to their belongings and their affairs ..... why moms should be prying permanent?

And, when my daughter told us she was a lesbian, I thought, wrongly, that somewhere could find the answer to his homosexuality and the place, "so I thought then," place "was also, and exactly Your room, your desk, your home!
That place that provide for quiet living so that he could do all the things I had to do as a college student.

And, despite my curiosity, despite all our discussions at that time, despite my need know everything, I never dared to look through the holes.

I ask them not to because they can find things, letters, objects, or I do that only cause them more questions, more problems, and more misunderstanding.

as heterosexual parents know we have the right to close the door to our room as often as necessary, we know that "place" is sacred and deserves respect.

ever heard something about the angels said to them, the angels, always caring for humans, who are on our side, watching and protecting us, but that when humans have sex, they, "the angels" turn around, give us back and spread their wings to isolate and hide our bed of love, and with his own wings!
If the angels, that somehow they are human, with all its wisdom are so cautious, because us mothers of gay children can not learn a little about them?

I do not know how the priests, with so many secrets and they have very serious others! But, to me, particularly, I like to learn of the details, I like to look through the holes in the doors if they are closed, I like to get without permission, in any inhabited place.

poke, dig, get at things differently, to violate equal intimacy, learn the secrets of others is not good, except that they share them with us.

And our children, heterosexual or homosexual, they know very well what things we count and what not, and they know they are as sensitive and as independent as we have taught ourselves.

addition, and finally, the secrets of people are never in their rooms or in the drawers of your furniture, or in their pockets ... the highest and most serious secrets are always stored in the brain and heart.
lesbian
When our daughter gave us his "secret" react hastily, not what you do, this maxim Trust must be returned with patience, respect, with confidence because it is a sign of love, is a request of our gay son says:
"take the party in peace" because that I am and so I will be forever and not want to lose the things I love best on earth!